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Life Changing Events

Posted: April 20, 2014 2:00 a.m.
Updated: April 20, 2014 2:00 a.m.

In light of Easter Sunday, pivotal events in history – and in our personal lives – often impact us in ways we never imagined.

At one point in my own life a series of back-to-back, non-related, life-challenging events resulted in my making several changes in my life – all for the better.

The first began with my then unborn child. We nearly didn’t survive a life-threatening condition associated only with pregnancy. As a result, a priest was called upon the birth of my daughter and she later lost a kidney. But she lived. And I loved her like no other.

Just as I was hugely enjoying the healthy little person she was becoming at age 22 months, I was hit head-on by the drunk driver of a commercial vehicle in an auto collision. After two years of corrective surgeries and re-learning to walk, I remained grateful that I had so much good in my life. And that we were both still lucky to be alive.

Breaks weren’t coming our way, however, when I was diagnosed with breast cancer while my daughter was still only 3 years old. Still, I felt immensely fortunate that the cancer was caught early and successfully treated. I have remained cancer free for years.

Yet, I heard a voice inside my head. The message seemed to be that “I wasn’t listening.” Not listening to what?

Within six months, however, I realized that I not been listening to myself. I proceeded to make several major life changes all at once – any number of which have been said to be disruptive to a person’s life or emotional well-being.

Instead, I was delighted. And life only got better after that.

Judging by the writers who have been sending in their stories – and we have some great ones coming up - we know our readers have stories similar to mine. Stories where events in life greatly influenced who they became, what they did, or what paths they pursued.

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